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Separation and divorce counseling

Family having problems with child custody
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Kind steht im Vordergrung uns hat ein zerissenes Blatt in der Hand auf der einen zerrissenen Seite ist eine Haushälfte mit einem Kind und einem Vater und auf der anderen Seite eine Mutter und ein Kind. Im Hintergrund sieht man Eltern die links und rechts stehen.
When separation becomes difficult.

Sometimes a separation or divorce does not go peacefully. Sometimes, after a separation or divorce, one is not able to make decisions for the child or children.

At this point, separation and divorce counseling can help. This type of support is about finding a solution for your child or children together as parents (yes, not easy, but doable!).

Especially now, when the separation or divorce is still fresh, emotions can be "all over the place" and, in addition to dealing with conflicts, you also need to find a solution for your child or children.

Kinder spielen Tauziehen auf grünem Boden in einem hellen Raum. Zwei Teams ziehen an einem Seil, jedes Team besteht aus zwei Kindern, ein Kind steht in der Mitte.
The child is the focus

The child is the focus of this counseling. 

Together with a counselor, we consider which solutions are helpful for the child/children in the following areas:

  • Arranging visitation agreements between the parent not living in the household

  • Reaching agreements between you as parents

  • Finding the appropriate living arrangement for your child or children

Additionally, you will receive counseling on individual topics.

"What cannot remain together should best part." Friedrich von Schiller

You can receive counseling, among other things, at the following counseling centers. These centers provide support to families throughout the Oberberg district. 

The specialists of the General Social Service (ASD) are also available to provide advice and support on separation and divorce issues.

If you have concerns about the interaction between your child and the other parent, you have the option to receive advice on supervised visitation. Please contact the ASD for this purpose.

The General Social Service of the Oberberg district is responsible for the municipalities of Bergneustadt, Engelskirchen, Hückeswagen, Lindlar, Marienheide, Morsbach, Nümbrecht, Reichshof, and Waldbröl.

The municipalities of Gummersbach, Wiehl, Radevormwald, and Wipperfürth have their own youth offices.

Do you need support from the staff of the district youth office or require further information?

You are welcome to contact the aforementioned counseling centers or the responsible employees of the general social service.

Your way to us:

Youth Welfare Office

Main branch
Am Wiedenhof 5
51643 Gummersbach

Service Hours

Monday

08:00 AM - 12:00 PM
01:00 PM - 04:00 PM 

Tuesday

08:00 AM - 12:00 PM
01:00 PM - 04:00 PM 

Wednesday

08:00 AM - 12:00 PM
01:00 PM - 04:00 PM 

Thursday

08:00 AM - 12:00 PM
01:00 PM - 05:30 PM 

Friday

08:00 AM - 12:00 PM

Changed service hours on 22.09.2026 (Learn more)!

The offices of the district administration are closed on public holidays, Christmas Eve, New Year's Eve, and New Year's Day!